I am not sure if this question is relevant to HN but I am looking for some rational answers and I do not know where else I could find smart rational people to ask this.
These days I see quite a lot of people begging for some petty cash. Subways, streets, public places and joints. Almost all of them have a touching story to tell. Most of the time I do find it convincing and would like to help with a dollar or two but lately it's getting out of control. I feel this has become more or less a business model to keep begging in areas where there are people. I see people on the street with cardboard signs, people doing tiny skits to impress/entertain, people trying to raise money for other poor people. This morning on the way to work, I encountered 3 different beggars in 20 minutes. While I would like to help with my allocated budget, I am afraid I might be hurting the system. System, where people are volunteering to help these and many other poor who do not beg and are out of sight.
I find myself in emotional dilemma where I would like to help but also do not want to harm a system. What do you do in cases like these?