Ask HN: Dealing with people having “Computer Problem”?
I should be thankful that I can solve these problems easily, but they don't like it. These people then try to appear smart by talking about something complex. Because I'm in problem solving mode I used to give it my 2 cents. They then quickly use sophisticated words and sometimes throw in abbreviations, which is an obvious sign somebody has no clue and wants to talk you down. When I use descriptive terms and fully speak out the abbreviations, it gets worse. They are quickly annoyed, even though I stopped what I was doing to help them. They need to appear smart, after those embarrassing moments, I get this. I stopped giving my 2 limited cents and just try to acknowledge them somehow, but it is difficult for me to sound sincere. I think it makes it worse. Should one only ask questions and try to flee the scene as fast as possible?
It is the most difficult part of the "Computer Problem" and I honestly suck at it.
I just want to be helpful. How do you manage this? What is a good strategy here?