It makes sense, doesn't it, that those who run arbitrary code on your computer every day, are people you feel like you can talk to? So let's talk to them. Make friends. Know each other. Help each other.
And if you feel like they would not care about you because so many people are using their programs, switch to a program that fewer people use, made by someone who can care about you as a human, someone who would be happy to have you as a user.
If you feel like there are too many developers, so that you can't talk to all of them, switch to simpler programs made by fewer people.
1. What things do you avoid using or doing?
2. What are the reasons that you don't want to do or use this thing?
3. What do you do or use instead to solve the same problem?