US spend a decade fighting in Afghanistan and 0 years in Pakistan despite UBL being in Pakistan.
And even nuclear armed nations aren’t exactly able to use their weapons to devastate an opponents military - see Ukraine and Russia.
It looks like it might even be Iran.
I'm old enough to remember when we (the US) ran this exact playbook, except the last letter was 'q' instead of 'n'.
Spoiler: the B-2 played a part in both of the big wars we lost in the last couple of decades. The problem hinges on the definition of "work": yes, the bombs hit what they are aimed at. No, that does not result in operational success without a coherent theory of victory.
This hasn't aged well...unsurprisingly
Remember that in much of the middle east, Iran is considered an enemy.
If Kim can get nukes, Khomeini can gets nukes.
Iran's religious dictator issued a Fatwa declaring nukes haram. This is why they've consistently stopped at 60% enrichment.
In a religious cult, everything rides on the leadership. He can't just come out and change his mind. He must have a very definitive reason that doesn't disagree with the reasoning in the previous Fatwa. His only real out is an existential threat where threatening a nuke becomes a tool to preserve lives.
Israel and the US have now given him that out. It remains to be seen if he actually takes it.
I hope the US can use hindsight right now to guide the next decisions.
Otherwise uncle Sam will let you know you have them
If Iran is willing to use its nuclear weapons in response to this (limited, conventional air strikes), then that's a clear demonstration they aren't rational actors and can't be trusted with nuclear weapons.
Perceptions of trustworthiness and rationality are orthogonal to a nation's incentives to acquire nukes.