You mentioned being a Southern boy; I am from Chicago and I would say that it does not feel like a "southern" town here, so keep that in mind. It is urban, don't be fooled by the "Texas" thing.
Anyway, people are real friendly, tech jobs appear plentiful, and there is a very good nightlife. The housing is expensive for Texas, but probably not compared to other states. The "no income tax" thing helps, as well.