That is, as engineers we tend to want details. All the details. We want to know what happened, why it happened, how it's going to be fixed, and how long that will take. Because we want all that detail for ourselves, we hesitate to contact our customers/boss until we have all the details. Combine that with a desire to fix problems as they come up, and you end up with, "I never told you there was a problem because I was always one fix away from the solution."
But most people are not engineers. They want to be acknowledged. They want to feel informed, even if they have less details than what you would like to provide for them. Sometimes, something as simple as, "We've noticed that there is an issue and are currently working on a fix," goes a long way. Also don't be afraid to pull out, "Users have been reporting issues with backup performance. We do not currently believe this represents a service failure, but we are working to return performance to normal levels."
Your users trust you (otherwise they wouldn't pay you). If you "believe" something, they will too.
