I have a really hard time following your argumentation, because it seems to have very little to do with both reality and what I wrote.
What I did WRT moving people closer to the finish line was to implement the PROXY protocol, so that using a(ny) preexisting and well-tested SSL-termination solution works seamlessly with Varnish.
IMO, that is a far superior solution to adding a lot of security critical code to Varnish which, at the end of that huge effort, doesn't work any better.
As I wrote in my piece: "the world really don't need another piece of code that does an half-assed job at cryptography"
And doing a full-assed job only makes sense if you have the resources, competence (important with crypto!) and the result makes a positive contribution, one way or another, which offsets the cost of its production.
Nobody has yet been able to point out what the positive contribution would be, compared to a solution where SSL termination is its own layer.
Do you know something about that which I don't ?
If so, please share...