This is just something that takes time and commitment from the community. It's only ~7 years old at this point, and if everyone just sits back and whines about the lack of tooling without, y'know, building & releasing something themselves, it'll be an ongoing problem. It's the "take take take" mentality - often disguised as being an open source advocate - of most software devs where they want everything for free (guilty as charged, myself).
That said, WebSharper is out there, which is a pretty solid framework for a lot of tasks. I've been thinking about ways to creatively encourage/solve the tooling problem though, starting with exhorting all of us in the F# community to reduce the whining and redirect the energy into creating solutions. Tooling is only a self-fulfilling prophecy if we continue to act as-if the outcome is out of our hands.