Maybe ultimately we'll be able to construct nice habitats for orbiting stations, but with current engineering capabilities rocky bodies are the only safe places to stay long-term. I certainly expect we'll get to asteroids eventually. But for now, Mars is closer than the asteroids, closer in delta-V terms than the Moon, and much more promising in terms of having organic-y raw materials available for farming and fuel. It makes sense to go there (or maybe Venus, but aerostats would be a big chunk of new engineering) first.
Colonizing planets and producing space stations would only help enhance the technology, provide refueling and repair places, and much, much more. People will have preferences on where they want to live (dirtside or not) in the same way people have preferences on where they live now. I think it would be safe to assume there would be a little of both (spaceside and dirtside) living out there. (I think that resource-wise, there will be more on planets because of its benefits)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Case_for_Mars
[I've had a romantic obsession with the colonization of Mars ever since I read the KSR Mars Trilogy]
Whereas Mars doesn't have an ecosystem at present and no species to endanger.
I want to make other planets livable so we can stop killing this one so much.
What (insufficient thought it might be) political support there is for efforts to stop killing this planet is based largely on the idea that "its the only one we have", so I'm not sure that really works.
One might (or might not...) want to wait until we have clear evidence that it is indeed sterile. In either case the first thing to do would be to seed it with engineered robust lichens, or the like, just to get things started.
>it was quite clear before it became law that there was no real commercial interest in mining or oil exploration in Antarctica for the foreseeable future. [1]
Of course, a vein of pure gold would be worth mining, but I think the main reason is the massive overlay of ice makes most of the minerals inaccessible, except at the fringes of the continent.
[1]http://www.coolantarctica.com/Antarctica%20fact%20file/scien...
Edit: the only solution to this that I can think of would be to have any and all housing underground, since I don't think it will be possible to restore Mars' magnetosphere.
And I figure the only viable colonization sites on the moon are the north and south poles, where you can get solar power continuously.