I think you are at a point where you just want to argue to argue because. I'll give one more spin and I am out.

The world you paint isn't the real world. The world I am considering is this one:

http://langpop.com/

In other words, one where your total languages are virtually nowhere to be found. Not by a small margin, by a landslide.

So, as they say in the movies, in a world where the top 5 most used languages are C and and C derivatives and total languages are almost nowhere to be found or a thing of academia, then, yes, what I am saying is very relevant and, dare I say, true and appropriate.

And, BTW, even experienced programmers screw up recursion because it just isn't used that often. I don't want to blame newbies.

So I look at this world, as evidenced by the charts on that site and a data I am sure could be dug up on a bunch of other sites I can very easily conclude that total languages are still mostly in academia and so is safe recursion. In a world dominated by C and derivatives, recursion can be really dangerous. Bad recursion hidden inside a library can be really bad news.

Anyhow, I am done with the back and forth. I understand where you want to come from. I am just asking that you understand that the frame of reference you have constructed is not one that matches our current reality. Which means one can't say that recursion is safe because when total languages when virtually nobody, in relative terms, uses them. And then, when they do use them, you have to ask what they are using them for. Is it Academia or real world application?

Enough said. Thanks for a good discussion. I wish people were not so nasty with down-votes on HN as it detracts from trying to have a discussion based on ideas contrary to the underlying HN culture. That's just the way it is.