Instead my foremost goal is to be the best father and husband that I can be.
To guide my kids as best I can.
To show my family and friends that I'm there for them whenever they need me.
To do my best to live up to the potential I have but not to beat myself up for not being the next Craig Newmark,
Most of all to try to stay positive in a world that provides so many opportunities for me to make myself miserable.
"I cant change the world but I can change the world in me" - Bono
And, finally, to keep learning as much as I can with the help of great coworkers, friends, my family and trememdous online communities like HN and StackOverflow.
So that's me, pretty much. Where do you find your purpose?