Okay, so there will be conflicts, which brings us back to the original question.
>I would consider that "proper" replication in the sense of a replicated state machine.
When I think about proper replication, I'm thinking about master-master replication which doesn't fail if the connection between peers is sometimes down, even for very long periods (e.g. what CouchDB can handle). I'm of course not saying that other kinds of replications are somehow inherently bad, but multi-master replication without active connections is what I'm after and what a lot of modern applications can benefit from.
Once you have two databases that are not connected all the time you need to handle conflicts. You can move the conflict handling totally to the client side, but the conflict handling must be implemented somewhere. I think that's such a common use-case that the database should provide basic interfaces and implementation for it. If nothing else, it reduces boilerplate code by large amounts. Of course no database can handle conflict handling fully, as some of it always depends on the business domain.