A few years ago, this was very much true. The Dispatch lib for doing HTTP requests was particularly guilty of this - you had to learn a whole new mapping of symbols to methods!
I feel Scala is beginning to stabilize now. The recent release of 2.11 fixed several annoying issues, notably thread-safe reflection. The community is beginning to build some substantial and usable libraries. There's a still a long road ahead, though.
That being said, I doubt (and fervently hope against!) Scala will ever become Java++. Scala seems to constantly push the boundaries of language design. This is great, as it results in exposure for some lesser-known concepts into the mainstream developer community (e.g. Scala implicits ~= Ruby refinements).
With regards to language stability - the docs will specifically warn you against highly experimental features (e.g. macros), and for many you even need to explicitly import something to enable them.
The type system is very much rock-solid. Scala doesn't force you to use co/contra-variance or higher-kinded types, but they're there should you need to write very theoretically sound or extensible code.