That's right. There's no such thing as a free (no pun intended) lunch.
> (by the way, writing a performant, bugfree, concurrent malloc and free is not that easy :)),
It's pretty easy, actually:
(defvar free-list)
(defun initial-malloc (n) (dotimes (i n) (push (cons nil nil) free-list)))
(defun my-cons (car cdr) (setf (caar free-list) car (cdar free-list) cdr) (pop free-list))
(defun free (cons) (push cons free-list))
The reason it's hard to write a malloc for C is that it has to manage variable-length blocks.
> That's not to mention that LISP has to interact with C on a regular basis for things like system calls, and comes with a runtime that prevents it from playing nicely as an embedded library
No, that's just wrong. There's nothing about Lisp that prevents it from being implemented as an embedded library, e.g.:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Embeddable_Common_Lisp
> You could probably argue that some of the above problems could be mitigated if everyone adopted SBCL as the standard
No, I'm saying use the right tool for the job. If you really need every last bit of speed and you don't care about safety or engineering cost then by all means use C or C++. But if you want safety, reliability, and the sort of run-time dynamism described in the original article you're better off using Lisp or its progeny.
I'm also saying that if you want performance and you also want to use Lisp, you can. But at the end of the day there are fundamental tradeoffs in computing between speed, safety, dynamism, and engineering cost that no language will save you from.