If you edit or update your post, I hope you will Mozilla's excellent "Security/Server Side TLS" page at https://wiki.mozilla.org/Security/Server_Side_TLS. This helped me get up to speed quickly and provided clear examples.
As proof of how good the Mozilla docs are, I tested my personal website using the Qualys test you mention and received an A+ rating!
This beat the A- rating for your site (though I freely admit I'm a total noob in this area - I'm copy/pasting and don't understand much about SSL). I guess this reinforces your point that good documentation is critical, and I hope more people find it at the Mozilla site.
https://www.ssllabs.com/ssltest/analyze.html?d=tombrossman.c...
https://www.ssllabs.com/ssltest/analyze.html?d=daniel.molken...