> I believe that all life on this planet came from elsewhere in the universe.
One can argue that this is uncontroversial on the ground that life's precursors came from elsewhere. The only debate is what level of complexity is meant by "came from elsewhere".
> And only the life forms that can quickly reproduce and spread to other planets get to live on.
There's another, more likely explanation -- that life in some form naturally arises if the conditions are right, and there doesn't need to be a connection with another life-supporting environment. This isn't proven yet, it's just likely.