I think Ben is being poorly served by his defenders, who are gleefully bringing in their MRA hobbyhorses.
Apparently they stuck around.
My point about the white knighting, was that Cantrill from Joyent is pretty much taking an apologetic stance as if Ben committed a chauvinistic crime against women in programming. He's taking a steaming dump on Ben, in order to look 'politically correct', and defender of woman's rights, for him and his company. That's when white knighting is sick..when it stomps on the ideal of being a decent person in order to appeal to the hounds thirsty for banter and apologies and discourse about an issue that doesn't even exist.
First of all, Ben didn't have any intent, second of all, this whole fuss is just..politics..and purely distressing circumspection for those with too much time on their hands. Go back to coding...at least there's output...
Oh and have you seen this? http://venturebeat.com/2013/09/18/can-this-startup-steal-nod...
Could be why Cantrill has it out for Ben.