Like the other commenter requested, can you provide an example of an ORM that isn't "stupid"? Your initial comment makes it sound like you've worked with at least one that isn't. We're curious to learn about which these may be.
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Not only that, but typically you end up balancing between stuff being unavailable because of lazy-loading, and one pageview taking 30 seconds because the ORM collected all the dependencies.
OP says one ORM is bad so all of them are, you say no some are nicely made (which I agree with), parent ask for a specific example you would recommend and you answer by nitpicking on a single word in his message, one that he even put in quotes himself. And then you finish with a question about something that parent didn't even say or infer.
Either you have an example and you provide it, or you don't and you say so, but your comment was unnecessary and unwanted.
(and so is mine, but I've seen so many of those on HN lately that I just broke and wrote that rant)
You've implicitly defined AI as a level of intelligence that doesn't need human oversight to function. That level doesn't exist yet, but that doesn't mean AI doesn't exist -- it just has a different definition than the one you're using.
Consider Watson (the Jeopardy contest computer lately in the news) -- it can beat the best Jeopardy players, but it's completely unable to function if given a different task or deprived of human oversight. Notwithstanding that limitation, most people will claim it's an example of AI.
Most ORMs are indeed stupid. They often produce completely surprising results at the least opportune moments. They are high maintenance tools that require constant supervision to ensure that you haven't accidentally made some changes which causes something crazy to happen in the ORM. It's about the principle of least surprise, which ORMs often fail horrifically at.
