Your interpretation of what I wrote, and what I actually wrote share very few similarities.
>See here for the difference between the terms responsive/liquid/adaptive (http://liquidapsive.com/).
That website has no authority over the term responsive. That is precisely the nonsense I am saying is wrong. Responsive is not defined as "having several fixed layouts and choosing between them". Responsive is defined as "responding to the environment and conditions to customize the behaviour". This encompasses correct web design.
>And the use of media queries, or 'stupid grid nonsense'
Media queries have absolutely nothing to do with grids. We use media queries all the time, every single site we have uses them in fact. We have no grids anywhere.