>So actually, EVE is way ahead of the rest, technology-wise.
That doesn't seem like a sensible comparison considering how much the gameplay of EvE differs from the typical MMO.
In any case, I'm not making a dig at EvE, rather acknowledging that the game has had a long life and has never been a multi-million subscriber behemoth. Therefore, they might make concessions, or allowed the persistence of previous limitations / decisions in design/infrastructure for lack of resources [1][2].
1: http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=5135873
2: http://massively.joystiq.com/2008/09/28/eve-evolved-eve-onli...