For this reason I always use my own photos of the specific item I'm selling on an auction, and do the shipping calculation in advance so the buyer pays - and so that the auction page include the shipping weight. Sometimes this costs me a few $ if the shipping calculator is slightly off (eg I've forgotten to allow for the size/weight of the packaging) and the insurance costs me a few $ as well. But if the buyer ever says the 'item is not as described' then I have a good excuse to claim on the insurance, who will ask for the buyer to submit what was received.