> most SMTP servers would accept email from anyone anywhere to anyone anywhere (i.e. 'open relay').
to date that claim, I'd say that by the late 90s at least, true open relays ("from anyone to anyone") were still numerous but carried a huge assumption of being part of spam operations (willingly or through ineptitude), and the most basic spam filtering would reject mail that came out of one.
That said, (before things like SPF) it was easy enough to deliver email to anyone you wanted even if you didn't have your own real email account and SMTP server; you could just look up the destination's MX and connect to it with telnet like that. Since your own random IP probably wasn't blocklisted it would generally be accepted and delivered.
Back then it was still basically considered bad form to reject email simply because the server didn't know where it was from... sadly, if we were still playing by those rules today, I can only imagine how useless email would be. Now it's definitely guilty-till-proven-innocent.