That sounds like a perfectly functional project, to me.
Then I try to understand and extract the actual formulas, and there isn't a clean formula layer anywhere. All is procedural, e.g. in `b4v6temp.c` formulas are tangled with branching, caching, model-state mutation. Extracting the computation, embedding cleanly and exposing through a sane API feels hair-pulling.
So yeah, maintained, but not as in 'modern, embeddable, understandable software component' I'd be looking forward in a rewrite. Maybe not even touch the simulation core, just rewriting Embedding/API layer and the UX would already be a big deal.
Why are you not using this through KiCad? That's what I would expect an amateur to do; especially since they handle the UX that you are complaining about.
And you are complaining about tangled code but that code is almost certainly hyper-optimized since performance actually mattered a LOT to people running spice simulations. ng-spice (and Spice3 and Spice2) were not written for programming ease; they were written to get a real job worth real money done.
In addition, any change you make to that code needs to be run back through numerical regression tests to make sure you didn't break things since this is software that people expect to get correct answers.
However, if the legacy seems to bother you so much, perhaps you should look at Xyce from Sandia?
They sound like an amateur at circuit design, not software engineering (which is how I'd describe myself too).
That code is also hyper-optimized for performance. I sincerely doubt you are going to match the performance easily with any random rewrite.
Now, if you had a very clear idea of why the code was making assumptions from the 1990s that are no longer valid, then you might stand a chance of producing something that would outperform it. Or, perhaps, if you had particular knowledge of modern high-performance numerical libraries that you could apply to the problem, then you might be able to beat it.
However, circuit simulation is remarkably difficult to get right (stiff systems with multiple time constants are not uncommon) and generally resistant to parallelization (each device can have its own model which are a unique set of linear differential equations).
If, however, the legacy of ngspice bugs you that much, go look at Xyce and see if that is more to your taste.