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0 pointsitake2d ago0 comments

I (think) many bullies have bad home lives. I wish parents would be held accountable instead of taking it out on the kids that are struggling to process their emotions / hormones in a healthy manner.

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mantas2d ago

And parents are acting out for myriad of reasons. There's a never-ending chain if you go that way. At the end of the day, bully victims end up holding the short end of the stick. And they frequently become bullies themselves. Maybe stopping bullying at the visible link is not the most right solution... But is there anything better that does not lead to eternal finger pointing?

itakeOP1d ago

I think the puck should stop with the first adult.

The front line adults at school have this policy now, which covers 30 hours of the student's week.

Parents need to be responsible for the remaining 183 hours they have with their kid.

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In Seattle, I hate seeing news articles about kids doing stupid stuff (murdering classmates [0], stealing cars, etc) and not an ounce of accountability for being a bad parent.

[0] - https://www.fox8live.com/2024/07/05/13-year-old-bystander-ki... [1] -

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