> I dislike React because it’s large, slow, and completely unnecessary.
You're personal opinion is irrelevant to the point I'm making. And that's exactly my point. For whatever reason people can't stop talking about their dislike for it. Going so far as to literally have it be your framework's tagline.
You can't even read a comment about Svelte without their need to bring React up.
> I really think autism has a lot to do with the necessity of large framework
No it's because the needs of the web have dramatically changed in the last 20 years. That's why people reach for things to help them build front-end apps. It's almost comical how different it is.