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0 pointswolvoleo1mo ago0 comments

Relationships aren't all about sex. That's the incel/extreme right vision.

I saw a skit on insta a few weeks ago about a girl saying she had a guy over for just cuddling and the incels piled on calling him a cuck. As is a woman is worthless if she won't put out and time spent being close is wasted without sex. It's ridiculous. These guys are so focused on what their hardliner bros want them to be that they no longer think about their own feelings. PS I go on cuddling dates sometimes and it's really amazing :) They don't know what they are missing.

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kylehotchkiss1mo ago

> Relationships aren't all about sex.

I completely agree with you! I think that sitting around generating adult content on AI stifles relationships (which are a precursor to having children, which xai founder seems to think quite highly of). My point being his own product contradicts his vision of where our country should be heading

wolvoleoOP1mo ago

I don't agree with that though. I watch porn a lot and I have had multiple relationships (at the same time). They watched porn too or sometimes real couples. And we find kinky stuff to try.

If anything it helps deepening and intensifying my sex life. I don't think it stifles relationships at all.

There's this concept that abstaining from sex/porn somehow makes you more interested in company maybe because it's the only way to get sex? But I don't find this at all. Obviously I'm in the sex-positive and polyamorous community but there's many like us.

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