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0 pointsamiantos14d ago0 comments

In an ideal/fantasy world under "small internet theory", every online friend group would have their own Discourse server set up (similar to how friend groups use Discord now), and traffic/usage of that Discourse server is so small that it would be a waste of resources to try to swamp it with bot traffic, and on top of that, everyone on the Discourse server are friends who can vouch for new members who join, so no bot could join the Discourse server because no one would know who they are.

I understand that some may feel we are losing something, by not being able to go onto a website and anonymously talk to 1000s of other anonymous people we do not know, but I do not think that has actually been a net positive and this bot issue demonstrates the issue quite well: if you do not know who you are talking to, you do not know if they are telling the truth, or if they are someone you should even listen to at all, and now they might not even be human. So why do it? I would rather talk to my friends, people I've met in meatspace or over voice chat in a game, people who I can vouch for and that I know I can respect and trust.

Let's build small communities of real friends who recognize each other and spend time with them on the internet, in that way the internet will never die.

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pixl9714d ago

>Let's build small communities of

And 10 minutes later Texas demands you identify all your users age when someone posts a porn image somewhere. Facebook will gleefully laugh all the way to the court saying we need such internet ID to entrench themselves.

>, in that way the internet will never die.

You mean in the exact way the internet used to be... then died?

I'm guessing your GenX or a Xennial, it's how we think. Relationships and friendships are hard things to acquire and keep and you have to work to do it otherwise friends disappear. The thing is the younger generations mostly don't think that way. They have mostly always lived in a world where connections are cheap and easy to maintain. Attempting to move to a system that is more difficult will be very difficult for them.

ianbutler14d ago

> Attempting to move to a system that is more difficult will be very difficult for them.

That doesn't make it wrong, it just might make the last 20 years a mistake.

pixl9714d ago

Large scale mistakes are very difficult to fix and have entrenched groups to ensure they continue. See: Internal combustion engines, Cigarettes.

senordevnyc14d ago

So I’m a member of a group of about 70 middle-aged guys who have a discord server exactly like this. We live all over the country, but most of us have met in person, we travel the world together, and we do an annual retreat where usually about half of us meet up. In addition to discord, we have a bunch of groups on Marco Polo, and we have little sub-groups that do zoom calls regularly. Really wish some of them lived nearby, but in spite of that it’s been one of the best things in my life for years now.

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0 pointsamiantos14d ago0 comments

Let's build small communities of real friends who recognize each other and spend time with them on the internet, in that way the internet will never die.

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pixl9714d ago

>Let's build small communities of

>, in that way the internet will never die.

You mean in the exact way the internet used to be... then died?

ianbutler14d ago

> Attempting to move to a system that is more difficult will be very difficult for them.

That doesn't make it wrong, it just might make the last 20 years a mistake.

pixl9714d ago

Large scale mistakes are very difficult to fix and have entrenched groups to ensure they continue. See: Internal combustion engines, Cigarettes.

senordevnyc14d ago

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