Meanwhile, others are completely free to fork numerous GrapheneOS improvements or benefit from their upstream improvements (as some have, including Google).
Why can't you understand that?
You're not being consistent in what you're advocating. You mentioned accepting pull requests in the context of wanting to see broader device support. You want broader device support. I do too, which is the value of the Motorola announcement. Your suggestion isn't the way to achieve that. It just isn't viable for reasons you should reasonably already understand. But since you don't...
It shows yet again you just don't understand the project, how it's structured, and what its goals are. I'd say you should try running it, but you're still murky on the actual nature of the OS you use daily, so there would be no point in my suggesting that.
Assuming all you want is broader device support while magically not increasing the GrapheneOS team's overhead, but for reasons you haven't stated won't accept forking it, you're out of luck, which is right where you should be.
Still, why? If you want hardware which lacks security features to run an OS, the primary value of which is its close integration with said hardware security features, what is it you really want, then? A degoogled Android OS? That already exists. Are GrapheneOS's "software" security enhancements (as if we can say "software" in the context of security in total isolation) their quality-of-life improvements to the OS that you're after? Many of those would greatly degrade in value if you couldn't trust the hardware it's running on. You'd get storage scopes, but you'd get it without a file system you could trust. You'd get network permissions but you'd get it without baseband isolation you could trust. You'd get x, y and z, without memory tagging.
If that's what you want, you can get that elsewhere, and should.
But by the conditions you set up, you're also effectively asking for code contributions by outsiders, when the project very deliberately and by all indications very tightly manages who can contribute code, and for good reason. The history of open source is the history of malicious code injection and social engineering attacks. If you want the device to be secure you have to address security from all angles.
Unless you're really, genuinely, nonsensically proposing the project commit resources to allowing people to suggest code changes they have no intention of ever implementing. Though I suspect at that point you'd argue in favor of some code base changes, while not having addressed the fundamental implications of doing so.
You're doing a great job of arguing against yourself, here, and have highlighted a fundamental challenge with Qubes OS. As an active user on the forum I'm sure you've seen the reasoned discussions weighing the pros and cons of accepting code contributions. If your response to that is, again, 'there hasn't been a relevant Xen bug in two decades and my data has been safe this whole time,' that's a dead-end for understanding anything.
Your rhetoric in all this is very similar to the kind of thing one easily finds on normie websites about commonly divisive issues. At some point I just can't keep insisting you're either informed or sincere about all this, HN guidelines notwithstanding.