1. Getting off screens
2. Socializing
But it still also accomplishes one of my favorite things to do: thinking — specifically problem solving and optimizing.
And, as an introvert, socializing actually naturally is secondary in our group, but that’s ok — a good heavy heads-down board game (think 3-5 hours) is still quite enjoyable in the presence of other human beings. A bit of a lost art in the day of the “black mirror” (cell phones).
If you haven’t tried getting into board games lately, I highly recommend it. If you don’t know where to start, I’d be happy to offer suggestions!
BoardGameGeek is the place to read up on games before buying them.
On the 'without spending money' front, depending on the city where you live, there often are board game cafes where you can go to rent games and play over there.
More economical if you are playing the game once or want to try out different games. Also very good if you struggle with learning rules from the rulebook.
One thing that would help if you could figure out the types of games you and your group might enjoy — or the type of group you and your friends are.
If you think you’d enjoy deeper strategy games, start with some of the popular games in the “strategy” category on BGG, looking for light to medium weight (1.5-2.5) to start out, working your way up the scale (to 3.0, 3.5, and 4.0).
If you’re more into the social/party type games (those are always more fun in larger groups), look at the party category. I particularly enjoy social deduction games in the right group, and those are usually big hits with older kids / younger adults (though I still enjoy social deduction games and I’m quite beyond “younger adult”). :)
One good example is One Night Ultimate Werewolf.
One tip: if you’re interested in trying out some strategy games that are a bit out of your price range, check out boardgameoracle.com and add price alerts on a few games you have your eye on. Many great board game sites run good deals (gamenerdz.com is one of my favorites), so you can often get good deals on games if you’re patient.
If you ever get to the point where you’re looking for something with a bit more depth, and are ok spending money, but you want the money to go a long way, Age of Steam is one of the best bangs for your buck.
It’s basically a system that has a library of probably close to 200 maps, where each map can change the game quite drastically, by tweaking several rules, in addition to a different map of course.
It’s currently my #1 game, and you could repeat plays with it without it getting old, assuming others enjoy the mechanics of game (route building, auction/bidding, tight economy).
It's called "So Clover!" and it's a word association themed game where each person gets four pairs of words, you write a one word clue for each pair, and then the rest of the group has to work backwards to figure out the original orientation of your cards (the cards themselves each have four words as well)
The beauty is that it visually looks really complex and advanced, but the gameplay isn't really that much complex more than wingspan.
Over the years I bought the 'prelude' expansion which speeds up the beginning. (Highly recommend)
And then once you've played it more than 10-15 times, the Hellas& Elysium adds more maps for variety.
If not, maybe there's an adjacent group that might also be willing to entertain board games, or it's a group you could found. My college had a gaming, anime, and chess group which anchored my social experience.
Pandemic. Ticket to Ride.
Modern classics, great fun, easy to get into.
For meatier games I really like Scythe: https://boardgamegeek.com/boardgame/169786/scythe
I really recommend trying a trick-taking game! Skull King, Fox in the Forest, Tichu. Easy to learn, impossible to master.
Another quick, low-complexity game that is easy to teach & pretty good fun is Century: Spice Road [2]
Chinatown [3] (re-themed as Waterfall Park [3b] ) is a simple highly interactive game that is basically 100% negotiations between players who are trying to make real estate deals with each other. Can be played in 90 minutes, including rules explanation, plays up to 5. For a more complex asymmetric game that's more focused on engine building, with a healthy dose of negotiation, check out Sidereal Confluence [4].
For more complex games that take a bit longer to play to teach and play, that are largely focused on players doing their own thing ("multiplayer solitaire"), building their engines without much negative player interaction, check out Ark Nova [5] or Terraforming Mars [6]. These might take 3-4 hours or so to finish, provided there's an experienced player to teach everyone the rules.
For another moderately complex strategy game with a little more player interaction, check out Brass: Birmingham [7]. Takes around 4.5 hours to finish a 4 player game, including the rules explanation. If you have a group that enjoys complex strategy games and wants something with spikier negative player interactions, where one player's actions can completely wreck another player's plans, check out Barrage [8].
This probably doesn't help "without spending much money"! One trick is to find or create a regular board gaming group where everyone brings along different games. That way if, everyone buys a new game or two every year there's a lot of variety without everyone needing to buy heaps of games.
[1] https://boardgamegeek.com/boardgame/364073/splendor-duel
[2] https://boardgamegeek.com/boardgame/209685/century-spice-roa...
[3] https://boardgamegeek.com/boardgame/47/chinatown
[3b] https://boardgamegeek.com/boardgame/396618/waterfall-park
[4] https://boardgamegeek.com/boardgame/202426/sidereal-confluen...
[5] https://boardgamegeek.com/boardgame/342942/ark-nova
[6] https://boardgamegeek.com/boardgame/167791/terraforming-mars
[7] https://boardgamegeek.com/boardgame/224517/brass-birmingham
I’m just going to get this off my chest here because I think a lot of “board game people” might not really understand why their enthusiasm doesn’t catch on with a lot of people
I know a decent number of board game “enthusiasts” that will pull out a fancy new game to show off, and spend a couple of hours setting it up and explaining the rules to everyone…
And then the next game night its the same thing. Check out this great new game! Let’s set it up and let’s all learn a new set of cards and board.
This happens so often to me. These people never want to actually _play_ a game, or at least they can’t get over their obsession to buy new games that I rarely end up playing a game that I just learned the rules to. Next night it’s a new game!
It’s exhausting and honestly I tend to avoid board game nights now. And I like games!
I had so much fun playing dominoes or simple card games with my friends before board gaming got huge. Because the point was not the actual game, but the time spent with my friends.
And you can sometimes get a group of them and try a new game each time!
But the average person just wants to play the same game each week for fun - we used to do things like this with cards (poker, bridge, cribbage).
I get what you're saying, but I'm a wanna-be board game person. I do want to try those games! To me, it's like going to a different restaurant every time you go out.
Sure, the point is the time spent, but it doesn't mean that we should go to McDonald's every time.
(I say I'm a wanna-be, because I don't have enough of a combination of friends and time to do this, and crucially, those friends also have to be willing to sit down and probably play one round of a new game after spending just as much time learning the rules. But board game nights with new games do happen - we just all know to pick games that at least one person already knows the rules to, or whose rules are short enough to pick up quickly, or whose gameplay goes quickly enough to get multiple rounds in after learning the rules.)
But yeah, see if the group wants to learn a new one vs. playing one they already know.
When I set up games for my coworker group, I always send out new options along with a number of games we've already played, and let them pick. (More times than not, they pick a new game.)
When I host games with my family, I always bring a bunch of games, both new and already played, and let them pick (these are usually much lighter [easier] games). I'll sometimes suggest a new game if I think they'll like it, and they usually do. The key is to get to know what the group typically enjoys.
There are many of them, every match is intense and yet you can explain the rules in a few minutes.
If you want the ultimate depth:ruleset ratio, come learn Go :) Every game is so different and exciting
But there's enough biographical details and concrete facts that I think he at least wrote the outline before having ChatGPT rewrite it.
I hate it so much.
