>I'm always going to be paranoid that I miss some opt-out somewhere
FYI, Anthropic's recent policy change used some insidious dark patterns to opt existing Claude Code users in to data sharing.
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=46553429
>whatever vague weasel-words the lawyers made you put in the terms of service
At any large firm, product and legal work in concert to achieve the goal (training data); they know what they can get away with.