Being overwhelmed by networking basics is worth addressing regardless. It comes up constantly: debugging connectivity, deployments, understanding why your app cannot reach a database. 30 minutes with the WireGuard docs would demystify it. The concepts are genuinely simple and worth 30 minutes to understand as it applies far beyond VPNs.
I have become pragmatic too. I do not tinker for the sake of it anymore. But there is a difference between choosing convenience and lacking foundational knowledge. One is a time tradeoff, the other is a gap that will bite you eventually.
And with LLMs, learning the basics is easier than ever. You can ask questions, get explanations, work through examples interactively. There is less excuse now to outsource or postpone foundational knowledge, not more[1].
At some point it is just wanting the benefits without the investment. That is not pragmatism, it is hoping the gaps never matter. They usually do.
[1] You can ask an LLM to do all of that for you and make it help you understand under less than 10 minutes!