We live in a society where complaining is considered "verbal abuse" or "harassment", but where we have to put up and shut up about everything going on.
The message out of 2020 and 2021, is that the big people know what they're doing and we don't.
We live in a society where being the victim of verbal abuse or harassment or various isms and all sorts of other petty things confers legitimacy and power upon one's opinion. There's a subtle difference.