Your definition made me stop and think about
how big of an asshole I really am. It is tough to somehow relate and try and measure it, because I reason a lot of social interactions and judge them as logical entities. Like you said not all assholes arent that bad, because not all of them realize they are assholes.
Though your term used to define it is wonderful. I would major in asshology if given the chance. But it would require a minor in chraminology. :)