Is it? According to who? After all, anybody can say "A is just another way of saying B" (especially if they ignore the differences), but it doesn't make it true. To wit: the differences I cited prove that there are differences.
> The only way this works, is if we become more accepting of opinions we fundamentally truly disagree with.
Historically speaking, accepting violence against minorities, and the rhetoric which fosters it, has not "worked" for the minorities.