I also notice that these language debates are very much generational. That has a few consequences. First is that older devs have thicker skin. Second, older devs are more wary of the big promises made by Rust. Whether you like it or not, the push for Rust very much comes across as naivete as much as anything to older, more experienced devs who have seen this type of thing before.
You can't write a device driver without manipulating memory directly. A OS Kernel has to manipulate memory directly by definition. Most academic research into memory safe languages is mixed with a high amount of null results (meaning it doesn't work). Yet the Rust folks push it as the 'one true way'. Meanwhile, most Rust OpenSource projects are abandoned currently.
Its not hate, its pointing out track record and avoiding repeating past mistakes due to painful experiences in our youth. Your determination to repeat past mistakes doesn't come across as enlightenment like you think it does.