I think "practically rudderless" here is fairly misinformed and a little harmful/rude to all the folks doing tons of great work still.
It's a shame there are some stale pages around and so on, but they're not good measures of the state of the project or ecosystem.
The problem of holding objects across async points is also partially implemented in this unstable lint marker which is used by some projects: https://dev-doc.rust-lang.org/unstable-book/language-feature...
You also get a similar effect in multi-threaded runtimes by not arbitrarily making everything in your object model Send and instead designing your architecture so that most things between wake-ups don't become arbitrarily movable references.
These aren't perfect mitigations, but some tools.