What you're promoting is a deeply narcissistic worldview, and I hope either the cure or the consequences reach you soon.
Though maybe those are going to present as the same thing.
The unhinged part was to imply that people can just choose to be happy under any circumstance which is obviously magical thinking.
Worse, I'm afraid. It's ideological thinking of the basest sort.
Magical thinking at least lets a person see that their bullshit isn't working, potentially even walk it back, correct themselves.
In ideological thinking, you gotta act as if the impossible wish has already come true. Reality says otherwise? Well, wish harder - or else. That's ideological thinking for ya.
And those are only two of the cards in that deck. I've observed that with sufficient mental self-mutilation, people can in fact choose to be happy under any circumstance. Occasionally even at no cost to innocents. (Though rarely - who'd permit them a clean getaway?)
Woulda had a field day with figuring out what complexes are puppetting AdieuToLogic, if their most coherent argument wasn't "fuck off" - pardon, "full stop".
I could of course explain exactly what my words "hinge" on, and what "provokes" them. I've found that this does not create understanding where previously it was lacking. So instead let's talk about what you said.
Two of your words I consider harmful and insulting:
>is seemingly
What the hell?!
...oh, right:
- If you say "X is Y", you gotta back it up. Scary!
- If you say "X seems to me Y", you gotta justify your perceptions. Nasty!
- But saying "X is, seemingly, Y", that's totally safe! Because it's bullshit. It posits a statement as true knowledge and elidies the need for justification outright, on the syntactic level.
What's worse, you probably didn't even notice you were doing this. You just picked up the pattern from people who looked like they had what you wanted.
That cognitive habits like yours are so widely accepted as "normal", is exactly why I'm guessing that CBT (or, for that matter, parent poster's wireheading suggestions) are probably going to be super effective on you, not kidding.
If you were to give those a shot, anyway. Instead of, you know, just stating existences of literatures at people. Also unless your current state of mind wasn't already achieved by similar methods. In any case, do report back!
Look at the multiple ad hominem attacks you put forth in the above comment alone. Imagine you are the person to whom you replied when reading it.
All because someone disagreed with a post you authored by writing in part:
... your comment is seemingly unhinged and unprovoked ...