That is to say that if the issue is duckdb running out of memory, it is most likely because the rust implementation is using memory more efficiently for whatever query is crashing duckdb, rather than graceful handling of memory allocation failure.
Where it is possible in c++ to gracefully handle memory allocation failure, it is not really a thing in rust I'm not even sure whether it is possible to catch_unwind it. I say this as a rust person who doesn't fancy c++ in the slightest...