It sounds like she literally has no idea how to use a knife.
Is she doesn’t want a knife which can cut things, Butter ‘knives’ are probably more her speed?
What was she even using the ‘knife’ for before if it couldn’t even cut her? Spreading jelly? Slicing cakes?
Not to be snarky, but it’s possible a couples class which covers things like how to use a knife safely might be a fun and enjoyable way out of this.