That would be a pretty broad assumption of liability: I'm not very involved in Ruby but I
am involved in Python packaging, and to my knowledge there's been no similar discussion around the PSF's keys-to-the-code control over PyPI (which is in a similar position in terms of supply chain attack vectors).
In other words: that argument is interesting, but it feels strained to me :-) -- I don't think RubyGems or Ruby Central is actually legally liable in this way (or if they are, it suggests a failure of clarity in their EULA/TOS).