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0 pointscopperx6mo ago0 comments

The Walgreens pharmacist scolded my 35 year old girlfriend for getting it, saying that it was useless at her age. She insisted and he reluctantly administered the first dose (and later got the rest at another location). He even questioned her motives for getting it once she was in the room. I was appalled by the whole interaction.

Maybe I could have understood if I had said she was my wife. But it is still stupid to assume that there will be no other sexual partners ever again in her life.

With the prevalence of HPV, it's likely that we have one or more strains already, but who knows. Maybe the strain of a future partner is what will trigger cancer.

If anyone here can enlighten me about the pharmacist's attitude, I would be grateful.

I got vaccinated way before I met her, and even as a male I didn't get any comments from the pharmacists that gave me the shots.

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malfist6mo ago

Gotta love the logic of telling adults not to get the vaccine because its probably too late and you're already infected, while also telling parents not to give it to their kids because it's only for "prostitutes and promiscuous gay men" (per RFK)

lostlogin6mo ago

> it's only for "prostitutes and promiscuous gay men" (per RFK)

It’s almost as though he has had a brain injury.

jl66mo ago

I believe you are referring to comments made about the hepatitis B vaccine, not HPV.

perihelions6mo ago

That's right; that particular HHS Secretary comment was about Hepatitis B.

> "“Hepatitis B vaccine was made for prostitutes and for promiscuous gay men,” Kennedy said in an interview on his Children’s Health Defense show in 2022."

https://www.washingtonpost.com/health/2025/06/25/rfk-jr-vacc...

The WaPo article doesn't bother to refute RFK's lies, but here's /r/medicine responding to them (in the context that's topical this week—RFK ordering the removal of the Hepatitis B vaccine from the children's schedule):

> "Let's be even more clear about this. If you contract Hep B in the first year of life, more than 90% develop the chronic form, and the need for liver transplant is much higher.... Worldwide, the second most common route for children under 5 to catch HBV is from other children, and that's not by doing IV drugs or having sex. (First most common is vertical, through mother.)"

https://old.reddit.com/r/medicine/comments/1niml9d/kennedys_...

starlust26mo ago

Even if you're married, you might not be married forever, could be in an open relationship, or a partner may cheat. None of which is the pharmacist's business.

Varelion6mo ago

MY partner also had a hard time getting it, at the age of 26. I also had a hard time getting it, at age 26.

People read the recommendation guideline, and brainlessly follow it without care of why it's in place. If you haven't had a reason to be exposed by 30, 30 is as good of a time to get the shot as 9.

One of the few times I can say the majority of medical practitioners don't know what they are talking about when they spit dogma instead of life-saving sense.

lazide6mo ago

I think it’s more that people judge and then look at the guidelines and get even more judgey and feel justified in doing so.

epcoa6mo ago

HPV is approved up to age 45 with “shared clinical decision making”. Above age 26 it may be more difficult without a clinician due to unimportant bullshit. Try a Planned Parenthood.

Varelion6mo ago

PP is where we managed to do it. Anyone who hasn't had the Gardesil-9 — which actively targets cancerous strains — please don't hesitate. It's byad.

alsetmusic6mo ago

I'm 44 and didn't catch any gruff from the staff. I'd complain to the head pharmacist.

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0 pointscopperx6mo ago0 comments

Maybe I could have understood if I had said she was my wife. But it is still stupid to assume that there will be no other sexual partners ever again in her life.

With the prevalence of HPV, it's likely that we have one or more strains already, but who knows. Maybe the strain of a future partner is what will trigger cancer.

If anyone here can enlighten me about the pharmacist's attitude, I would be grateful.

I got vaccinated way before I met her, and even as a male I didn't get any comments from the pharmacists that gave me the shots.

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malfist6mo ago

lostlogin6mo ago

> it's only for "prostitutes and promiscuous gay men" (per RFK)

It’s almost as though he has had a brain injury.

jl66mo ago

I believe you are referring to comments made about the hepatitis B vaccine, not HPV.

perihelions6mo ago

That's right; that particular HHS Secretary comment was about Hepatitis B.

> "“Hepatitis B vaccine was made for prostitutes and for promiscuous gay men,” Kennedy said in an interview on his Children’s Health Defense show in 2022."

https://www.washingtonpost.com/health/2025/06/25/rfk-jr-vacc...

https://old.reddit.com/r/medicine/comments/1niml9d/kennedys_...

starlust26mo ago

Even if you're married, you might not be married forever, could be in an open relationship, or a partner may cheat. None of which is the pharmacist's business.

Varelion6mo ago

MY partner also had a hard time getting it, at the age of 26. I also had a hard time getting it, at age 26.

People read the recommendation guideline, and brainlessly follow it without care of why it's in place. If you haven't had a reason to be exposed by 30, 30 is as good of a time to get the shot as 9.

One of the few times I can say the majority of medical practitioners don't know what they are talking about when they spit dogma instead of life-saving sense.

lazide6mo ago

I think it’s more that people judge and then look at the guidelines and get even more judgey and feel justified in doing so.

epcoa6mo ago

HPV is approved up to age 45 with “shared clinical decision making”. Above age 26 it may be more difficult without a clinician due to unimportant bullshit. Try a Planned Parenthood.

Varelion6mo ago

PP is where we managed to do it. Anyone who hasn't had the Gardesil-9 — which actively targets cancerous strains — please don't hesitate. It's byad.

alsetmusic6mo ago

I'm 44 and didn't catch any gruff from the staff. I'd complain to the head pharmacist.

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