I've spent much of my career working on desktop software, especially on Windows, and especially programs that run continuously in the background. I've become convinced that it's my responsibility to treat my user's machines as RAM-constrained, and, outside of any long-running compute-heavy loops, to value RAM over CPU as long as the program has no noticeable lag. My latest desktop product was Electron-based, and I think it's pretty light as Electron apps go, but I wish I'd had the luxury of writing it all in Rust so it could be as light as possible (at least one background service is in Rust). My next planned desktop project will be in Rust.
A recent anecdote has reinforced my conviction on this. One of my employees has a PC with 16 GB of RAM, and he couldn't run a VMware VM with 4 GB of guest RAM on that machine. My old laptop, also with 16 GB of RAM, had plenty of room for two such VMs. I didn't dig into this with him, but I'm guessing that his machine is infested with crap software, much of which is probably using Electron these days, each program assuming it can use as much RAM as it wants. I want to fight that trend.