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0 pointsduxup8mo ago0 comments

I find asking questions on the internet are increasingly seen as a negative, right out of the gate, no other questions asked.

I get it to some extent, a lot of people looking to inject doubt and their own ideas show up with some sort of Socratic method that really is meant to drive the conversation to a specific point, not honest.

But it also means actually honest questions are often voted or shouted down.

It seems like the methodology of discussion on the internet now only allows for everyone to show up with very concrete opinions and your opinion will then be judged. No opinion or honest questions... citizens of the internet assume the worst if you're anything but in lock step with them.

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formerphotoj8mo ago

Hence, the "dark forest" theory of the Internet is no longer theory.

bfg_9k8mo ago

I don't get it. Asking questions is never a hostile thing, regardless of the context. Honest or not, questions are simply.. that. Questions. If someone is able to find a way to take offence from a question being asked, that's pathetic.

duxupOP8mo ago

>Asking questions is never a hostile thing

I think many people are looking for context before diving into a conversation, I think that's a human thing. It can be a waste of time / disappointing to engage in a conversation and find the other person is really not participating and is there to drive the conversation to their point.

TylerE8mo ago

When did you stop beating your kids?

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