> Acting like this employee was silly for not dumping a huge sum of money into company shares before it was in a position to succeed is flatly ridiculous.
Once again we’re talking about employee #2, exercising early would not have been that expensive! They had access to a strike price and low tax liability that the vast majority of later employees would ever see. You are correct in that most shares in startups are worthless, but that’s orthogonal to exercise price and tax consequences.
The calculus changes if/when the company becomes a unicorn, but by then the risk profile is much more favorable than when it was a scrappy startup, and returns are lower.
> I also say this from personal experience as employee. I was an employee ~#600 of a unicorn that went public. I ended up in something of the sweet spot of equity: most of the people who joined before me left before me and got less than I did in the end. Most people who joined after me got less equity at a worse strike price than I did.
Well one has to stay long enough to vest in order to keep the equity, being early isn’t enough.
I don’t know your specifics so maybe you did make it out better than earlier employees, but some tricks companies use once they hit unicorn status (and have hundreds of employees) is stock splits. They want to pad their share grants for newer employees to make it seem more attractive and make the strike price lower. Of course earlier employees that exercised and left get their shares multiplied too.