One of the underappreciated things about the bay area is that, while it is very suburban, there are several respectably sized downtown cores -- Mountain View, Palo Alto, Redwood City, and of course the Big Kahuna - San Francisco -- all connected by relatively speedy (and from what I understand, much speedier now) rail.
I knew the end was in sight when it became company policy that no employee stay past 6PM without HR approval due to the danger.
As a result, basically every west coast city absolutely destroyed itself and will take at least a decade or more to recover… it they every really do.
Portland specifically is lagging a bit, but they are on the upwards trajectory (with a few big things to fix still).
I suspect the person denigrating the West Coast cities is doing so from their basement in East Prolapse, Kentucky, as a way to rationalize their life choices.