The fact that lists like yours so often end up being "Look at all these C libraries" ie not actually about C++ at all is revealing. It's an endorsement of Bjarne's position that he needed that C compatibility, decades later C++ alternatives remain unpopular but it also tells you that you're never going to raise the bar this way. C++ is not a route out.

AFAIK there is no equivalent of rustls-openssl-compat for C++. The knowledge that this library (OpenSSL) is trash never spurred any C++ programmers to do better and provide the same ABI but with a C++ implementation.