For me, it's Erlang. I just really like its horn clause syntax, it's so clean and readable. I know a common complaint is lack of piping (and even though you can implement it trivially, the order of arguments for some functions makes it of dubious use) but it's a small price to pay.

> I mean the language is really nice but the C# baggage and runtime was just a bit much

This was my experience with F#. Frankly, I've never been happy with my experience with CLI on Linux, and the toolchain inherits a lot of baggage from its C# heritage. Microsoft's toolchains have a very distinct workflow to them. F# has some interesting aspects to it like active patterns (something I wish was more common in the ML-family), but tbh I'm more than happy with ocaml.