Your comment comes off as "people pay, therefore it has value." Which the inverse would need to be true in that case.
But you are conflating money and value. As you stated, raising children produces value, and as you imply, this is not generating revenue. Which you are also conflating exchanging money with generating value. Sure, liquidity can generate value but don't confuse these things.
People seem to be forgetting that money is a proxy and that a proxy is not the same as the thing you are proxying.