Just depends on your priorities and what you value I guess.
I'm not on board with the iOSification of macOS either. IMO, it's has gotten progressively worse with every version since Snow Leopard. Atomic Fedora distros and KDE Plasma has made me look forward to upgrades again (and yeah, they happen automatically in the background).
With macOS I just stuck around as long as I could knowing that there'd be no upsides to getting the next macOS release.