It's actually totally managable and reasonable for an end-user to stay on top of their patches and run a personally built subfork. I think it's better to think of it a a starting-point and template for your own builds rather than a Product.
They're reasonably tidy, not too big, and much of the size comes from a typical userprefs a la arkenfox.
I don't see why you would dissuade before even looking? This is one of those scenarios where verifying the work is a small fraction of the time and expertise to produce it.